One of the most frustrating factors one can experience in
any type of relationship is poor communication. Some women have accused us men
of being simple-minded people, but many would argue that we are just merely
straightforward with what we want. Period. However, since it seems that men and
women are a different specie, the latter are not always “straightforward” and
“simple-minded” as we are. Hence, frustration and confusion arise when one is
misinterpreted. At any rate, we were all raised and engineered differently by
the Creator, and have our unique ways of communicating.
Nonetheless, these types of issues slowly dissipate as the
two individuals become more acquainted with each other, and as a result they
learn how to interpret every single move they make. Their words, tone, eyes,
and gestures speak more than a million and one words. Spending time, listening,
and studying each other eventually enables them to understand one another.
Perhaps this is the common denominator most of us face in
our relationship with God. Day after day we kneel down and beg the Lord to
teach us what His will is, and some of us have even dared to believe that
sometimes He doesn’t speak back. Frustration arises. Confusion too. We fall to
our knees, and even though we hear his voice, we do not understand what He is
saying. But maybe, just maybe, if we were to spend more time with him, speak
less, listen more, and study Him things would be differently.
Scripture is filled with information regarding what the will
of the Lord for your life is. It’s there written in black bold big letters. Let
me show you just a tiny bit of it:
1. “For this is the will of God, your
sanctification” (1 Thes 4, NASB).
a.
Abstain from sexual sin (3)
b.
Learn how to control your body (4)
c.
Love one another (9)
d.
Mind your own business (11)
e.
Learn how work with your hands (11)
f.
Know your biblical doctrines and beliefs (13-17)
g.
Comfort one another (18)
The Lord hears ands understands your heart, tears,
frustrations, words, and your silence because He has spent every single second
of your life right there next to you. He listens to you, and has studied you
from day one. He knows you and I have trouble communicating, therefore, the
Holy Spirit TRANSLATES our prayers to the father with groaning too deep for
words because we simply do not know how to pray (Romans 8:26).
For that reason, is our turn now to learn and become
acquainted with God’s love-language. How? The same way He has done with us: Spending
time, listening, and studying Him through Scriptures.
Blessings!
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